PROB'LEM, n. [L. problema; Gr. to throw forward, and to throw; L. pello.] A question proposed.
1. In logic, a preposition that appears neither absolutely true nor false, and consequently may be asserted either in the affirmative or negative.
2. In geometry, a proposition in which some operation or construction is required, as to divide a line or an angle, to let fall a perpendicular, &c.
3. In general, any question involving doubt or uncertainty, and requiring some operation, experiment or further evidence for its solution.

HON'ESTY, n. on'esty. [L. honestas.]
1. In principle, an upright disposition; moral rectitude of heart; a disposition to conform to justice and correct moral principles, in all social transactions. In fact, upright conduct; an actual conformity to justice and moral rectitude.  2. Fairness; candor; truth; as the honesty of a narrative.  3. Frank sincerity.
"Honesty is chiefly applicable to social transactions, or mutual dealings in the exchange of property."

"The powers not delegated to the United States by the Constitution, nor prohibited by it to the States, are reserved to the States respectively, or to the people."
- Amendment X of the United States Constitution

Link - Tenth Amendment Center

One perspective is that a marriage is the performance of a vow between a man and woman that you can't do by yourself.

Contending

"They that forsake the law praise the wicked; but such as keep the law contend with them." - Proverbs 28:4
"And if also any one contend in the games, he is not crowned unless he contend lawfully." - 2 Timothy 2:5
"Beloved..I have been obliged to write to you exhorting you to contend earnestly for the faith once delivered to the saints." - Jude 1:3

Being Contentious